Here is the definition i found on Letstalksugar.com "A Splenda Daddy is a man who has every intention of being a legitimate, spoiling Sugar Daddy, but just doesn’t have the funds to pull it off. He’s sweet, but not quite Sugar. It can be a bit tricky deciding whether an arrangement like that is worth investing your time in, or if you should admit he’s not the real deal and move on." I ( u/malibijones ) am curious to know what SBs consider "splenda". I realize everyone is different so splenda to one may be a "whale" to another. I want to keep this anonymous so I am disabling the ability to comment and or post. Votes are not tied to user names so please feel free to vote, especially the hundreds\thousands of lurkers. As for this poll am using Per Per Meet amounts (simplest). For now we are setting aside "Experience Daddies" (those who spoil through experiences and not allowances). Be truthful. Give the SDs here an idea of what you think splenda is. You never know... you may change someone's views.