So i hired an appartement with my ex for 1.5 years. We broke up in May.
Last few months of our relation i still tried to fix it. I made an appointment with an therapist etc.
During this time my ex already did things i didnt like and were were strange to me. She said i didnt have to pick her up from the airport because an old (single) friend would pick her up. I was already like wtf? When i came back home i saw flowers on our table. So i asked her: So he also brought you flowers? And you still think he only wants to be friends?
Few days later we had another fight. She told me i had to leave the appartement because she wanted to move on. I said? U wont even want to try with the therapist. She said no i had to leave because she already made plans to go on a 5-day long trip with the guy who picked her up from the airport.
I already told her she hurt my feelings with that. Because i feld replaced immediately. She still claims its only a friend and nothing happened...
Ok so last week she also moved back to her parents but she asked me if i wanted to help to move. I was like wtf? Now you need me again? She told me: We lived here together, so you should help.
I told her to ask her new friend. But he couldnt.
Yesterday she wrote me a message that her whole environment was dissapointed in me because i didnt come to help...
So i dont know whats normal now.. Am i wrong? Thats why i want a neutral opinion.
Your vote: You had to help her move.