One of my ain't-shit friends is about to propose to his girlfriend in the next couple weeks. She's smart, genuine and generally one of the coolest people I know... But her life will be ruined shortly if she walks down the aisle with him.
Here's why:
* He cheats on her with shocking regularity. He's planning to do it again this week... Yes, planning it in advance! She has no idea.
* He has stolen money from her. She doesn't know this.
* He lied to her about wanting kids. She does, he doesn't
* He has a drug habit she doesn't know about.
* He's just generally irresponsible.
Me and him are cool because we've known one another since we were kids. He's not mean-spirited or anything. He generally means well but is just very selfish. He actually does loves her. But he just loves himself far more.
Anyway, should I:
Your vote: Try to convince him that he's too much of a mess to marry her (or anyone, frankly).
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