I always ask a POT what their motivation is to be in the sugar bowl. I always wonder how honest a SB will be when trying to hook an SD. My current assumption is that most SBs sugar because they are struggling to make ends meet while remaining relatively sane. I hope an anonymous poll can give me a better idea. Please pick the one that best describes your entrance into the bowl.
Obviously this list is not complete. These are just the ones I have encountered or read about. I welcome any additions.
This is my first time attempting to make a poll on Reddit. I hope it works.
option |
vote |
Survival - About to be evicted, ramen noodles or less for 2 out of 3 meals, etc.
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2697
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Financial struggle - Student struggling to make ends meet, low income in a high cost of living location, single mom.
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98
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Short term financial need - Need to replace a vehicle or furnace that died; pay for a one time expensive necessity.
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100
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Long term financial need - Pay off student loans, start a business, etc.
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118
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Condition that hinders typical employment - Health/disability, criminal record, etc.
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116
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Desire to experience the finer things in life - travel, 5 star hotels, etc.
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104
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Desire to meet a better class of men than you can find on Match.com.
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94
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Desire to have a pseudo relationship without the commitment and expectations of vanilla dating.
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94
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Fun money - pay for a vacation, hobby, cosmetic surgery, etc.
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93
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Sugar dynamics of an older man/younger woman.
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95
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FWB + allowance - Why not get paid while fulfilling my sexual needs?
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109
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