Because I'm curious, and I'm seeing it in profiles on Scruff, Growlr, and Grindr amongst guys younger than 30 that they ghost (and I admire their honesty for doing so upfront), I'm doing a little poll. Do you ghost, do you say not interested, and in which age group do you fall? This is not even remotely scientific, it's very informal, and probably won't confirm or deny any hypotheses I've begun to form about this phenomenon. (If you're curious, I'm over 30, and I always say I'm not interested if I'm not interested. I never ghost or offer silence as an answer.)